tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7586986988878607570.post5040319099106505736..comments2023-10-21T19:04:28.082+08:00Comments on STEEST: Of being in a scam! Part 2SFGEMShttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03919119004910187095noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7586986988878607570.post-13676662396505350492010-12-19T15:06:29.799+08:002010-12-19T15:06:29.799+08:00Martin,
I wouldn't have gotten involved, if m...Martin,<br /><br />I wouldn't have gotten involved, if my friend hadn't brought it to my doorstep. <br /><br />I mean, she wanted me to drive to KLIA at night just to help this "guy" out.<br /><br />In the end, I hope that she knows that I meant well and that all I said or did was because I cared for her.<br /><br />:)SFGEMShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03919119004910187095noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7586986988878607570.post-69258440804809089792010-12-14T15:15:34.652+08:002010-12-14T15:15:34.652+08:00When the truth is eventually revealed, sometimes i...When the truth is eventually revealed, sometimes it is better for us to keep silence of the matter hoping the scammed victim could learn the lesson well and accept to bear with the consequences in his/her own time frame!<br /><br />We always pay school fees for the things we learn in life. Heeding the advice from good friends or love ones sometimes could save us from paying expensive school fees and pain!Martin Leehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18194281718414566973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7586986988878607570.post-36462452536892755492010-12-11T11:24:36.673+08:002010-12-11T11:24:36.673+08:00Johan,
Thank you for sharing my concerns and need...Johan,<br /><br />Thank you for sharing my concerns and need to put this out. <br /><br />Much as I have tried to push it out of my mind, it still remains in one corner of my memory bank. I suppose I need some kind of closure, even if it means that the person involved has to face the harsh reality of being scammed.<br /><br />Being a sentimental romantic is perfectly fine, I think. The only danger is that there are people out there who just don't appreciate this. Therein lies the "problem" because what began as something good turns out to be the best profile of a person to be <i>hit</i> on.<br /><br />Such is life. And life goes on.<br /><br />Thanks for your comment. Really, I appreciate it.<br /><br />:DSFGEMShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03919119004910187095noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7586986988878607570.post-83506772864243380652010-12-11T11:18:23.171+08:002010-12-11T11:18:23.171+08:00My dear Pat
I totally understand how hard it must...My dear Pat<br /><br />I totally understand how hard it must be to accept being taken for a ride. Especially with matters of the heart. <br /><br />What needs to be known is that people who love you, will try their darndest to help you. <br /><br />Very often, we think that we know better and sometimes, we just don't.<br /><br />That little voice of someone who cares for you shouldn't be ignored.<br /><br />It was hard for me to have kept pushing and pushing. I felt like such an interfering person. My head told me to stop. My heart asked me to push on.<br /><br />It was such a struggle till the end.<br /><br />I have learnt now that we cannot do everything we want, no matter how hard we try.<br /><br />Thanks for your input, Sweetheart. <br /><br />You know I appreciate it so much.<br /><br />:)SFGEMShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03919119004910187095noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7586986988878607570.post-82854090915487285602010-12-10T14:50:01.176+08:002010-12-10T14:50:01.176+08:00Lita, thanks for putting this out. You know how I ...Lita, thanks for putting this out. You know how I share your concerns about people who put themselves in this despite our cautions. The lesson I learned from it was to find out that not everyone is ready to be helped. As you've also found out, helping hands are never welcome when people see it as an obstacle to their imagined happiness. When it turns into a nightmare, its not just them who are hurt. We too share the hurt for not being able to stop the train wreck, not that we didn't try with all our hearts.<br /><br />I've come to think of Malaysians as sentimental romantics. We are quick to believe in castles in the sky, knights in shining armour, and shortcuts to happiness. What a strange contrast. While we are survivors, we are almost childlike, ready to believe in anything. And boy do we ultimately pay the price.<br /><br />But I believe nothing in life is a waste, not even painful epidoes like being cheated, because each one is a priceless lesson. But until we learn it, we will continue to make the same mistakes over and over again. Think of it as a process of polishing a diamond. The polisher won't leave us until we are sharp, shiny and bright. Every lesson we learn makes us wiser and shine a little bit brighter. Despite how it feels, pain is not always a bad thing in my opinion.Johan Hhttp://paperwrapper.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7586986988878607570.post-5340363022135721732010-12-10T09:20:22.772+08:002010-12-10T09:20:22.772+08:00It's eerily similar to the one you posted abou...It's eerily similar to the one you posted about earlier, isn't it? And even reading something like this would not convince that 'her' that she was part of a scam?<br /><br />I guess, it's not so much her not believing it, than not 'wanting' to believe it. Because believing it would mean that she has to face the fact, and accept, that someone lied to her, and took her for a ride. And <i>that</i> is what's hard to swallow.Pathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10795820209657289652noreply@blogger.com