13 September 2009

Meme: Save Yvonne's Sight

Masterwordsmith tagged me for this Save Yvonne's sight meme.

Yvonne Foong, 22, has neurofibromatosis type II, which has severely affected her sight and hearing due to tumours in the brain and spine. She is scheduled for an operation between 1 and 4 December 2009. The cost of surgery is USD44,000 or RM154,770, and the cost of staying in hospital for two weeks is USD915 or RM3219.

She has raised about RM10,000 of this and is hoping to raise the rest by republishing her book I'm Not Sick; I'm Just a Bit Unwell in English and Chinese. The books are now available in Malaysian bookshops and from her web site store. She is also selling T-shirts at bazaars and via her web site store. You can read about her surgery and donate to her fund here.

You can also help by sending on this meme. If you do, please follow these meme rules:

1. Create a blog entry titled "Meme: Save Yvonne's Sight"
2. List three things you love to see. Add in the picture of Yvonne's book cover. The URL is http://www.yvonnefoong.com/images/banner/my-story.jpg
3. End with the line, "Yvonne Foong is in danger of losing her eyesight thanks to neurofibromatosis (NF). Please find out how you can help her by visiting her blog at http://www.yvonnefoong.com.
4. Tag 5 blog friends. Be sure to copy the rules, OK?
5. If you have a Facebook account, please check out Ellen's new invention, a "feme" pronounced FEEM, a meme designed for Facebook here. And if you want to blog about NF, that would be great too!

Three things I love to see:

1. Random acts of kindness
2. The sun peeping out through dark clouds
3. Loved ones when they don't know I'm watching

Consider yourself tagged, if you read this!


Yvonne Foong is in danger of losing her eyesight thanks to neurofibromatosis (NF). Please find out how you can help her by visiting her blog at THIS LINK.


In fact, if anyone else out there would like to meme or feme this - please feel free to do the needful.

LET'S DO WHATEVER WE CAN TO HELP YVONNE. THANK YOU.

12 September 2009

A Whole New World .....

Let the music play while you read!



I can never say "A whole new world" without hearing the music that goes with it. Most, if not everyone, would know this phrase from the movie "Aladdin".

Here are the lyrics, which I think, aptly, describes the relationship with all things/people in cyberspace.

I can show you the world
Shining, shimmering, splendid
Tell me princess, now when did
You last let your heart decide?

I can open your eyes
Take you wonder by wonder
Over, sideways and under
On a magic carpet ride

A whole new world
A new fantastic point of view
No one to tell us no
Or where to go
Or say we're only dreaming

A whole new world
A dazzling place I never knew
But, now, from way up here
It's crystal clear
That now I'm in a whole new world with you

Unbelievable sights
Indescribable feeling
Soaring, tumbling, freewheeling
Through an endless diamond sky

A whole new world
(Don't you dare close your eyes)
A hundred thousand things to see
(Hold your breath it gets better)
I'm like a shooting star
I've come so far
I can't go back to where I used to be

A whole new world
With new horizons to pursue
I'll chase them aywhere
There's time to spare
Let me share this whole new world with you

A whole new world
A new fantastic point of view
No one to tell us no
Or where to go
Or say we're only dreaming

A whole new world
(Every turn a surprise)
With new horizons to purue
(Every moment red-letter)
I'll chase them anywhere
There's time to spare
Anywhere, there's time to spare
Let me share this whole new world with you

Let me share this whole new world with you
For you and me

This is exactly how I feel being connected to the cyberworld.

Strangely, I am always connected to my virtual friends because we are in touch frequently. We know what's going on in each other's life via emails, facebook or twitter. Some consider it cold and sterile but I think it's acceptable. Time and distance is never a factor. Everyone is just only an sms or click away.

To my virtual friends,

I know who you are. Thank you for being a part of my life. And I love you for all the support and encouragement (and patience).

Peace!!!


21 August 2009

Balimoon

Okay, it's almost a month since I posted anything and probably many have given up on visiting my blog.

Well, I had some problems with blogpost and then I was busy with work and home. Finally, a short holiday to Bali, with Stephen, added to the delay in updating here.

Anyway, after being away for nearly a month, I'm back!

I'm going to share some thoughts about my Balimoon (think Bali and Honeymoon). I'm sure you got it.

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This holiday was last minute. We probably paid more than we should have but I guess that's the price to pay when we have commitments.

We paid about RM1200 for two airtickets, to and fro. Personally, I thought it was a great deal until I heard that if you book during their sales, the very same tickets can go for just RM80 per person. However, the travel dates have to be determined way in advance and we don't have that luxury yet. No worries, though.

Our hotel cost us USD115 per night which we booked online. It's pricey since we were there during the peak season. Low season prices can be gotten at about USD65 or thereabout. The Jayakarta Bali was recommended to us and we believe that it is value for money because of the great location, sufficient security and good service. There are three swimming pools and the beach is just a stone's throw away.The sand on the beach is fine and loose. Looks like silver dust sprinkled evenly through and it sparkles under the sun.
Just a short walk out of the hotel and you have shops, salons, restaurants, bars, tattoo shops, laundry, tour agents, car/bike rentals etc. Anything you would need, is just minutes away. The famous Legain Street is a 20 minute walk and all along the way, are shops galore. Shopaholics can get cured here!
Of course, with all the walking, who would not want to give in to the temptation of a foot reflexology. Stephen insisted I have a full-body massage. I didn't argue. :) So I allowed a stranger to massage me from the tip of my toe to the top of my head. It was bliss. Really, it was terribly delicious in every sense of the word. This was followed by a facial and pedicure and ended with a manicure. What did this cost? Rp190000 which comes to just about USD19.00. A simple body massage will cost only USD6.00. The place is clean, the workers are soft-spoken. Will I go back there again? YES.
This was, by far, the best holiday I've ever taken. Perhaps it's because I had the right company. We didn't have anyone to worry about except each other. Stephen is a great bodyguard. He's a wonderful companion to shop with. He'll bargain till we get the best price, he'll carry all the bags and he'll wait patiently for me to browse any shop that I want. I think my shopping addiction is cured. Well, at least for now!
The Balinese people are not what I had imagined them to be. I found them hard-working and attentive. They do everything cheerfully and go all out to help make your stay as pleasant as can be.

On the way to Ubud, I notice that the roads are really narrow but, happily, many are one way although the motorbikes go against traffic. I notice that everyone toots the horn but no one takes offence. Everyone is relaxed and calm and there's no ugly stare or finger up in the air if someone honks. You can rent a bike or car for the day. There are some really big bikes there. Most people walk. Dress is extremely casual. Just shorts or sarongs and tops.
I think it's safe to walk alone because I've seen young girls, skimpily dressed and walking around even at nights. The men don't leer or gawk at the women with their bikini tops and plunging necklines. Many women walk around with just a sarong and a bikini top. Me, not so modern lah. I just wore some exercise top and shorts. Men go around bare bodied.

We took a Sunset Dinner Cruise on our third night. We took this cruise which picks up from hotel, drive to the harbour, board the cruise ship, watch the sunset, buffet dinner, show, music and dancing (if you want). Pick up at 4.30 pm and ends at about 8.45 pm. We paid Rp 800000 (USD80.00) for two of us. They give you a welcome drink, serve canapes and there is an international buffet spread.
It gets bright very early in the morning. Stephen wakes up at about 5 am and I stay in bed till about 6.30 am. He says I snore and it wakes him up. Hey, I'm tired from the walking about all day. We usually walk in the mornings and throughout the day. Heck! Who wouldn't be tired?

Stephen and I fell in love with Bali. The people, the sights, the sounds and the smells all left an indelible mark on us.

Things are going to get mushy now. (Hint! Leave now if you can't stand it).

From the start of the trip, the one factor that made it all so memorable was the fact that I had Stephen to share it with. As many of you know, we live in two different countries and although we see each other on most weekends, it's always short though sweet. When I am in Singapore, it's business as usual with visits to family or just catching up with him and all that's happening there.

When he comes to Malaysia, we relax and we have my side of the family to meet up with.

However, when we left Malaysia for Bali, it really was a lovely feeling to not worry about anyone, at least for a while. With no obligatory duties to perform, we only had to see to our own needs. There's something wonderful in that feeling. I'm not knocking those with young kids. There's unspeakable joy in having your children with you and making memories with them. We've had that too with other holidays together with Jared. Going off, on our own, we felt a freedom to just revel in the luxury of each other's company. We felt sad leaving Jared behind for just maybe 10 seconds. The moment we got in line to check-in, the excitement just took over and we got into "holiday" mode easily.

After four days and three nights in Bali, we realised that it wasn't enough. There were so many more places to see and food to enjoy. We both knew that we would make the trip again.

Did we leave with a heavy heart? Not really. We were sad but we were together. We know better than to look back when we can look forward with the knowledge that returning to Malaysia wouldn't mean despair and desolation. Malaysia means Jared and the comforts of home. And home is where the heart is.

Click here for a fantastic post and great pictures on Bali (4 parts) by Antares!

26 July 2009

Objectionable content!!!!!!

Something has gone wrong.

My blog has been flagged for "objectionable content".

Who on earth would do that?

I am trying to work it out.

For now, this is all I can do.

All suggestions are welcome!

17 July 2009

Sudden death?

What exactly is "SUDDEN DEATH"?


Picked this up from Wikipedia.


In a sport or game, sudden death (or a sudden-death round) is a form of competition where play ends as soon as one competitor is ahead of the others, with that competitor becoming the winner.


Sudden death is typically used as a tiebreaker when a contest is tied at the end of the normal playing time or the completion of the normal playing task.



hmmmmmmmmmmmmm

12 July 2009

Jared: 23 Years and counting!

For the last 23 years of my life, the one "constant" has always been Jared.

Today as he celebrates his birthday, I know that all the history, the ups and downs, the laughter, the tears, the highs and lows, the good and bad is what makes the chapter with him so incredible.

We parents may think that we created a "being" but the reality is that our creation has it's own mind and will. Very often, we can only be a spectator in that life. We get to have front row seats and we feel everything that is going on but we have to refrain from jumping in to join the act.

So often I hear of parents gushing platitudes about their children or lamenting about them. I might also be guilty of the same thing. Who knows?

It's his birthday. It's a celebration. Not only for him but for me.

Today, it's my turn to think of the superlatives that describe Jared! There are so many. I am, after all, his mom!

However, I'd like to pay him tribute with these:

"He's my anchor". The seas had been rough for me. Jared kept me from drifting.

"He's my rock". Jared has been the reason for working hard all these years.

"He's my "yardstick". I have had to see myself through his eyes.

Finally, "He brings music to my life".


Jared, I love you and I'm really proud of you. The world is a much better place with you in it! God bless you and keep you safe always.

Happy Birthday!

08 July 2009

"The Silent Roar" (updated with "how to buy the book)



I’ve just got a new book!

You want to have a look?


It's called “The Silent Roar”

You can't buy it in a store!


Printed and bound down south

Only found by word of mouth!


It could affect your way of life!

Syabas to dear author and wife!


BREAKING NEWS HERE !!!!!

Click on link: How to buy the book