We are told that when life gives you lemons, make lemonade. When it happens, I can tell you that it can be a little difficult to remember about making a refreshing drink.
Recently, I was told that I blabber on my blog. So does it make those who read my blog "blabbees!".
Well, when people say unkind things to me, the first thing I do is to see who is saying it. If it's someone I respect then I usually take a step back and give it some thought. If I suspect that it was said in anger, then I sometimes shrug it off and I can even forget it, eventually. If I believe it was intended to irritate or hurt me, then I wonder about it a little more.
I have been to so many blogs and never once, did it occur to me that I should leave an unkind word. Either I give my opinion or some props. I wouldn't even dream of saying anything slightly disparaging. After all, it's their space and what would it say about me and why I was even there!
Really, it's so simple. This is my blog. If you like it, you read. If you don't like it, then why do you care to come back.
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